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Ida Helmers
27 dec. 20232 min läsning
A SOMATIC AND NEUROBIOLOGICAL PERSPECTIVE ON SELF-DEVELOPMENT AND HEALING
On this journey of self-development and healing that many of us are on, it is easy to fall into the trap of focusing only on the problem....
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Ida Helmers
27 nov. 20232 min läsning
INTENTIONAL COMMUNICATION
As human beings we communicate to each other all the time, not just through words. Someone even said: ”We cannot not communicate”....
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Ida Helmers
15 nov. 20233 min läsning
RELATIONAL EVOLUTION
Do you know the most common struggle couples face today? The conflict between the seemingly opposing needs of individuality and...
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Ida Helmers
15 okt. 20232 min läsning
Fertile ground
Deep within your inner ecosystem is a fertile ground. No matter what you’ve been through and where you come from this soil is ripe and...
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Ida Helmers
28 sep. 20232 min läsning
Creating space between stimulus and response
“Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and...
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Ida Helmers
13 sep. 20232 min läsning
What if Love is the guide and not the destination?
My biggest relational wound is a question: will Love stay? This wound has left a vigilance deep in my tissues, always waiting for it to...
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Ida Helmers
23 aug. 20232 min läsning
We need each other to heal what was hurt by another.
Relational trauma and dysfunctional relational patterns can only be fully healing in relationship. This is what I create spaces for in my...
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Ida Helmers
10 aug. 20232 min läsning
It is time for a new paradigm in relating!
As our culture shifts and changes towards increasingly individualised needs we find ourselves in a conflict with the old relationship...
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Ida Helmers
10 juli 20231 min läsning
There is no such thing as having a regulated nervous system.
Saying you want to have a regulated nervous system, is like saying you want to be happy all the time. I mean yes, that would be nice, but...
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Ida Helmers
21 juni 20231 min läsning
MY NERVOUS SYSTEM = MY INNER ECOSYSTEM
It runs through my entire organism, linking all seemingly separate functions to each other in milliseconds. It weaves the past, present...
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Ida Helmers
6 juni 20232 min läsning
What is in the way is the way.
When we start taking new steps towards what we want in life we are usually met by either fear, doubt or frustration pretty soon on our...
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Ida Helmers
3 juni 20231 min läsning
All you need is love?
They told me all you need is Love. But when I looked to get my needs met in Love instead it showed me what I really needed. When I went...
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